A Gaggle of Girls for a Glorious Gathering

Apparently, I'm liking the letter "G" tonight. Really, I am grateful for these girls, for the laughter they bring to my life. This is a group of four of us, all friends from college, that get together once a month. Or try to. This year we've been fairly consistent. We've been gathering like this for the five years that I've been out of school, though some of these girls finished after me, and some have gone back to school in that time. We've been through a lot together--sicknesses, marriages, house buying, life changing things, life living. And, we always laugh. Always.

The plan was to meet at my place and take a "nice" group picture before venturing out to the Fantasy Trail. In setting the self-timer on my camera, and having a wonderfully curious cat...this was take one of our group shot. Thank you, Ezme. You never cease to make me laugh, this night you shared that experience with everyone!

behind the cat (from L to R): Jamie, me, Rose, Rachel

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Our arrival at the Fantasy Trail. Aquiring hot cocoa and tickets.On the trail...

We encountered a bridge that was a little too fun to jump on. Notice Jamie's hair! :)

Smile Santa!

Such a good looking group of girls!

Notice the jail. Click on the picture to enlarge it and notice who is in it...

One of the houses on the trail was all slanted, off kilter...we had fun peeking through this "mini-opening!"

~me

~Rachel

~Jamie

~Rose

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Rose and me in another little house~

Our group in the castle!

That is the way to go...

Jamie was concerned about the "children being held captive" on the property. We kept coming up with stories about them peddling bikes to power all the lights, hiding in the woods, etc. Then, in the castle there were carvings on the wall. More proof of the children being held captive! :)

Yes, Jamie, I realize that child has been here since 1990. Haha~The Fantasy Trail was a lot of fun and we laughed a lot. I most definitely will return-maybe for Halloween next year!

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Meanwhile, back at the ranch....

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....we had decided to have an ornament exchange and a white elephant exchange.

Rachel with part one of her white elephant.

Last year, we had decided to get the corny-est white elephant gift. I found this darling (read sarcasm into this) baseball cap bird house. Rachel ended up with the dreaded thing last year. It came back this year. Rose is the lucky holder of the awful bird house for the next 12 months.

Jamie and her book, "Where the Heart Is."

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The pictures of our ornaments that I took didn't turn out the greatest, so you'll have to live with an update later, or just not seeing them. They were great though, and I absolutely love mine! It came all the way from Michigan and will be a treasure that I put on my tree each year. When I hang it I am sure I will remember this night and these lovely ladies with fondness and a smile in my heart.

Jamie, me, Rose, Rachel (minus the cat)

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For our November gathering, Rachel had written a poem as the invite. It was so much fun that I had to copy her idea for our December gathering--here's my handy work:

This is the time
That I would like to rhyme
I sit here to write
Of a girls gathering in the night.

It is the eve of the 7th of December
Please remember.

A special season
Is the reason
That we will gather in my home
And from there we will roam.

Christmas clothes you will be wearing.
Two gifts you will come bearing.

One gift will be a white elephant,
Just for the hell of it.
The other a nice ornament,
That will become tree adornment.

I will serve some goodies that will refresh.
I only hope they will impress.

If you have any questions,
Or even a few suggestions
Contact me please, don’t hesitate.
For this I will appreciate.

Merry Christmas!

November Poem of the Month

Where the Sidewalk Ends
by Shel Silverstein

There is a place where the sidewalk ends
And before the street begins,
And there the grass grows soft and white,
And there the sun burns crimson bright,
And there the moon-bird rests from his flight
To cool in the peppermint wind.

Let us leave this place where the smoke blows black
And the dark street winds and bends.
Past the pits where the asphalt flowers grow
We shall walk with a walk that is measured and slow,
And watch where the chalk-white arrows go
To the place where the sidewalk ends.

Yes we'll walk with a walk that is measured and slow,
And we'll go where the chalk-white arrows go,
For the children, they mark, and the children, they know
The place where the sidewalk ends.

There’s no question: My days are numbered

This article was in the Oregonian in November of 2006. I love it. And, at this time of year the point of it is good to remember:

The average American home now has more television sets than people, according to Nielsen Media Research. There are 2.73 TV sets in the typical home and 2.55 people, the researchers said. --The Associated Press Sept 21, ’06

I have two kids. Both are away at college.
I have five television sets. (I like to think of them as a set of five televisions.) I have two DVR boxes, three DVD players, two VHS machines and four stereos.
I have 19 remote controls, mostly in one drawer.
I have three computers, four printers and two nonworking faxes.
I have three phone lines, three cell phones and two answering machines.
I have no messages.
I have 46 cookbooks.
I have 68 takeout menus from four restaurants.
I have 116 soy sauce packets.
I have 382 dishes, bowls, cups, saucers, mugs and glasses.
I eat over the sink.
I have five sinks, two with a view.
I try to keep a positive view.
I have two refrigerators.
It’s very hard to count ice cubes.
I have 39 pairs of golf, tennis, squash, running, walking, hiking, casual and formal shoes, ice skates and rollerblades.
I am wearing slippers.
I have 41 37-cent stamps.
I have no 2-cent stamps.
I read three dailies, four weeklies, five monthlies, and no annual reports.
I have 506 CD, cassette, vinyl and 8-track recordings.
I listen to the same radio station all day.
I have 26 sets of linen for four regular, three foldout and two inflatable beds.
I don’t like having houseguests.
I have 184,000 frequent-flier miles on six airlines, three of which no longer exist.
I have “101 Dalmations” on tape.
I have 14 digital clocks flashing relatively similar times.
I have 22 minutes to listen to the news.
I have nine armchairs from which I can be critical.
I have a laundry list of things that need cleaning.
I have lost more than 1,000 golf balls.
I am missing 37 umbrellas.
I have more than 400 yards of dental floss.
I have a lot of time on my hands.
I have two kids coming home for Thanksgiving.

~Written by Rick Moranis

Some days are like that

Today has been the kind of day that nothing seems to go right. Nothing seems to go wrong, necessarily. It just doesn't go right. Maybe that is why I've lost my brain. I decided to make a yummy wild rice and turkey casserole for dinner. Get rid of some of those turkey leftovers from Thanksgiving. I went to the store especially to get mushrooms for it. Came home, put it all together and stuck it in the oven. About 15 minutes before it was done I opened the fridge. Guess where the turkey still was?!

Ugh.

:) Good thing it is almost over!

A Little Bit of Wyoming on the East Coast

Even if I won't be in Wyoming for Christmas this year, a little bit of Wyoming will be gracing the front lawn of the US Capitol Building. I will also be gracing the front lawn of the Capitol at some point during the holiday season and will therefore, get to experience a little bit of my homestate on the other side of the country. Bliss.

As soon as I found out that this years Capitol Christmas Tree was coming from my homestate, I had to "Like" the Facebook Page. Of course. That page led me to the blog of the adventure from WY to DC. The pictures below I hijacked (with love and appreciation) from the blog~

I absolutely LOVE the one of the tree loaded on the truck with the Tetons in the background. Stunning, really.

The one of the tree in front of the Capitol Building is pretty impressive, also!

Soon enough, I will be seeing it. Adorned with 5,000 ornaments made lovingly by many from around the great state of Wyoming. I can't wait.

(click on the pictures to make them bigger!)

Last visits. Goodbyes.

Last visits, last times to see a person, last looks at something, to someone are interesting. And hard. I experience this a lot with the population I work with. Sometimes I don't know it is the last time. I think I might prefer it that way. Then again. I don't know. Is it easier to say goodbye to a person now before they are gone or later once they are gone? Is it easier to say goodbye to a place that you have fond memories of, knowing you will make more fond memories in the next place?

Goodbyes. They can be either temporary or permanent. The temporary ones are always better. The permanent ones are inevitable.

This post is disjointed. Maybe because my brain is disjointed. Along with my emotions. You see, I made a last visit today. Said goodbye today. It was harder than I expected. Maybe because it was unexpected in the way it happened. As some of you know, and some of you don't, I am a Hospice volunteer. It is a semi-recent thing. I completed my training in June and got my first "assignment" in early August. She was a hard nut for me to crack. We eventually found our groove. She loved having her back massaged. I'd love to have someone massage my shoulders, arms, and back for 45 minutes to an hour once a week. Sounds like heaven. That is what I did for her. Faithfully, once a week. Even with little response from her. Even with little interaction. And only one time (in four months of visits) any indication that she remembered who I was. That didn't seem to matter. She glowed when I was there. It didn't matter that I had to be let in AND out of her building. It just didn't matter. I was making a difference in her life, if only for that hour, once a week.

Late Friday I got a call from one of the Volunteer Coordinators that my first patient was being discharged from services. She had improved enough that she no longer qualifies at this moment in time for Hospice. It was optional to make a last visit.

I made my last visit today. My usual Saturday visit. After the phone call yesterday I couldn't help but feel sorrow. Sadness knowing I had grown accustomed to seeing this lovely, little lady that only has a world as large as her room, her wheelchair, the locked facility that she lives in. That her world has been diminished and will be further diminished, day-by-day, hour-by-hour. Even though the last visit was optional, I couldn't not go and say goodbye. She was in her bed and very agitated. Delusional. She was upset and not consolable. Not redirectable. It broke my heart. Especially as I explained that this was the last time I would come. She looked at me blankly and then started to talk about the rats, wanting to go home. I wanted to go home. I was having a hard time with this. When I had signed up to be a Hospice volunteer it was knowing full well that I would be saying goodbye to my patients. But I hadn't expected to say goodbye to them in person. While they are still alive. And if that is the case, I was wishing that it would have been on a good note. On a note that we'd had our visit last week when she was smiling and happy. I stepped back for a moment and reminded myself that I needed to meet her where she was at. I reapproached her and told her that I was so glad that I had been able to come visit and that I would think of her often. I thanked her. I gave her a kiss on the forehead and said goodbye. She calmed then and said goodbye, probably not (but maybe) understanding the scope of the goodbye.

On my way home I reflected on my thankfullness that I was able to interact with this person. I was able to make a difference in her life and that she made a difference in mine. For this, I am grateful and appreciative. And, I said my final goodbye.

Socks-lots of them!

Apparently, we love our socks here. So much so that some crazy folk arrive in the wee hours of the morning at their local Fred Meyer store on Black Friday to get great deals on socks. Socks. Because I am not originally from here and also choose not to participate in the chaos I forget every year about this madness. That is until I walk into Fred Meyer anytime during the week before Thanksgiving. Every year this thought goes through my mind: "why are there so many boxes of socks. Seriously, stockers, get them out of the isles." Oh, goodness. Socks. 50% off on Friday apparently. Is it worth it?

I've also heard stories of people going in to Freddies on Thanksgiving Day and hiding socks so that they can avoid all the people swarming the boxes and can just go to their friendly garden center and extract said socks out of the pots that they've hidden them in. Oh, sorry. I didn't mean to give away your secret. Really. Please forgive.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours. Me and mine will not be sock shopping in the wee hours of Friday morn.

Only in Portland

Portland is a unique city. I love it for that very reason. I am not often 'surprised' by anything I see here. However....this completely caught me off guard.

I was walking to the hospital during my lunch break one day and this is what I saw. After walking past it I had to turn around just to take a picture all the while silently praying that the owner wouldn't walk up as I was doing it. Thank goodness for cell phone cameras.

Drum roll please as I introduce you to the most unusual thing I've seen in a while~~

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, it is a crocheted car hood warmer. WOW. Really?! Welcome to Portland in all of its "Keep Portland Weird" glory! :) And now, please proceed with your day and have a great one!

The Ripple Effect

Alternately titled:
"On the difference we make in peoples lives

and the difference they make in ours."

This post has been a long time in the making. It has been rolling around in my mind as if it is all that takes up residence in this place. It has been formulating during what has equated to hours of conversations, some where I did the talking, some where I did the listening, all with those who are close to my heart. It took a road trip to see a dear new friend. It took a late night airport run and quiet on my part. It took a picture message of a beautiful fall leaf from a beautiful friend. It took a typical weekly visit and conversation that took a different path than normal. It took walks up a pretty intense hill. It took a reconnection with a mentor from my junior high days. It took listening to music. Listening to my heart. It took the melancholy that settles like a heavy fog in my life, always making itself known during the change of seasons. It took silence. And the processing of conversation content. The processing of brain content. And of heart content. It may not be clear, but it is from deep in my soul. It is tangential. Quiet but loud. It is sincere. It is here, for you, to read. For you to know my appreciation of you.

As of late I cannot not think about the people in my life. I know a lot of people. I have connected with a lot of people. I cherish the impact that they all have had on my life. Hence, the ripple effect. Recently, I've often been finding my thoughts drifting towards the people that have entered my life, and who have not left. The people who have entered my life, and who have left. For all of them, for all of you, I am thankful. Truly. I am. I wouldn't be the person I am today without your presence in my life. Your influence. Your love. Your time. Your patience.

There have been innumerable people who have made a dent in my person, my development. Carefully crafting who I am, carving out the image of me as a person, whether they knew it or not. There is, of course, my family. They are the base, sturdy and strong like a Great Oak. They are the ones who first taught me love. Taught me the impact that can be made in the life of someone, for better or worse. Then there came all who are not blood related, but are heart related. The people that I surround myself with. The people who again, teach me love, but of a different kind. The friends who share their concerns, friends who share their life experiences, their fears, their excitements. And those are the friends that let me share my concerns, life experiences, fears and excitements. It is they, who have open hearts and let me be me and love me for who I am.

As I think of you and thank God for placing you in my life I also wonder at the impact that I have made in your life, in the lives of all those that I interact with. Was it for the better, or worse? I pray for the first, but will also own the later. In several conversations and thoughts that I've had as of late, one of the points I come back to often is: I may know the impact that a particular person has made in my life, but I often forget and minimize the impact that I may have made in the life of another. The reason I make this point is not in vain. The reason I make this point is to remind you, to tell you, that even though you are grateful for those who impact your life, you should always remember that you are also making an impact in peoples lives. You are important. Even if you feel small. Even if you feel insignificant. You aren't. No one is. You have made an impact on me. In my life. I am beyond blessed to have you as a part of me and who I am.

I've decided on the need to be on a personal crusade to more transparently and intentionally acknowledge those who make a difference to me and for me. I begin here. And I hope I don't end. Many blessings to you and many thanks from my heart go to you.



Always,
~Stephanie

Proud New Inheritor of An Original

I was gifted a dear and close to my heart gift tonight. I lost a participant, who was a light in my life, a little over a year ago. I still miss her. I still have the privilege of seeing her family. She was an amazing artist. Her daughter has been trying, for the last year, to get me to willingly accept one of the many paintings they have that her mom had done. I haven't wanted to. I've pushed back. I've resisted. I thought it would be too hard to have one of her pieces. When I was having dinner with her daughter tonight, going through the artwork was brought up. I tried to diffuse the situation. Then she got flustered. I thought in my head, "you know Stephanie, this may be her way of having some closure. Accept the gift graciously." So, I left her home with a new piece of art work for my home. I love it. It already feels like it belongs. Now...to frame it. The mat doesn't do it any justice either. And then, a distinguished place for it to hang.

October Poem of the Month

Fallen Leaves
by Robert William Service

Why should I be the first to fall
Of all the leaves on this old tree?
Though sadly soon I know that all
Will lose their hold and follow me.

While my birth-brothers bravely blow,
Why should I be first to go?
Why should I be the last to cling
Of all the leaves on this bleak bough?
I've fluttered since the fire of Spring

And I am worn and withered now.
I would escape the Winter gale
And sleep soft-silvered by a snail.
When swoop the legions of the snow
To pitch their tents in roaring weather
We fallen leaves will lie below
And rot rejoicingly together;
And from our rich and dark decay
Will laugh our brothers of the May.

Sheriff for a Night

I got to spend All Hallows Eve with this handsome Sheriff (and his lovely parents).

Aren't I lucky?!

Howdy Partner, wait--should it be Stick 'em Up Partner?

A Week of Friends & Fun & Needles

What a whirlwind week. Every night this week has been booked. It has been fun and exciting and exhausting-in that good way.

The week started off with one of my girls groups' October event. We were gathering to carve pumpkins. It was grand fun and we laughed A LOT.

I love, LOVE this picture of Jamie.

There was a trauma injury and a stat surgery needed to be performed, rapidly, with a toothpick. Thank goodness it worked.
When I was at the Pumpkin Patch picking out my pumpkin I had decided that I wanted to try a white pumpkin. It was a nice change of pace.

This was our group post carving with our pumpkins in our scary (intended to be) picture.

This is a "normal, nice" picture of our group.

And, another...

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Tuesday I headed to my doctors office. I have consistently had a knee that has bothered me. It grinds and pops. It is miserable. I had decided finally that it was time to go to the doctor (after going through Physical Therapy a couple of years ago with no remedy). She said it was arthritic. Did I mention that I am not even 28 right now?! Really?! Arthritic?!

My options were a steroid injection or beginning the process to get approval for an MRI, which would/could lead to a surgery. I opted to try the least invasive track to start. So, the Dr brought in the needle that was HUGE. Her nurse that set-up the iodine, etc said, and I quote, "when I had a cortisone injection it hurt like hell. Ah. Well, it was in my finger which is obviously smaller joint. Maybe that makes a difference. Sorry. Are you okay. It won't hurt too bad." Thanks. A LOT. Really, because you know, I love needles and all. Especially the ones that are like 2.5 inches long and will be given in the joint.

Anyhow, I survived. Fairly unscathed, with the exception of a tiny needle hole in my knee. Which, by the way was small, but large enough that other people could see it.

Then I went home. I was done with that day.

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Wednesday was movie night with Megan and her housemate, Corina. We went to see Eat, Pray, Love. I really enjoyed it. I craved spaghetti because of this movie. I also craved travel. Exploring parts of the world that are unknown to me. Ah, that wanderlust thing...blasted. :)

Thursday brought musical night. This is probably the 7th season that Holly and me have had season tickets. It is a nice, guaranteed time that we have together. The show was In the Heights. It was quite enjoyable.

Friday night brought the end of a busy week, but not before getting in a great game of hockey between the Portland Winterhawks and the Seattle Thunderbirds with Megan, Corina and Julie. It was a first time hockey experience for Megan and Julie. It was a great first game for them to see. At the end of the 3 periods it was tied and eventually made it into sudden death shoot out with Portland winning!

Here are some pictures from the game!

He looks like he is staring right at me doesn't he...?

During one of the breaks they had the dash for cash. Pretty impressive to see people scrambling around on the ice to get any of the $10,000 in coinage that had been tossed to the ice.

"The gaggle of girls," as Megan called us that went to the game:

Me, Megan, Julie, Corina.

It was a great week spent with great friends. Now, I am tired. On to a restful weekend (hopefully)!

"Occasionally in life there are those moments of unutterable fulfillment which cannot be completely explained by those symbols called words...

... Their meanings can only be articulated by the inaudible language of the heart."

~MLK, Jr.

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I had never been to Corvallis. Not until this weekend. And, may I say, it was a splendid little town and a very splendid weekend away. It was beneficial for me to be there. On so many levels that I can't quite explain or put into words. I had plans to see some friends that had been neighbors of mine and had moved back to Corvallis this past January. Then I was going to be staying with Tera, a student intern we had at work this past summer, who I had connected with and we became quick friends.
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The drive down was wet. Really, really wet. There was a lot of rain and water spray, and only car- length-in-front-of-me visibility, but I made it safely. I'm thankful that there wasn't more traffic on the road.

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The first stop I made was to see my dear, former neighbors. These are the kind of neighbors you want. Beth and Jorge and their two, darling daughters were my neighbors for too short of a time. I was sad to lose them as neighbors when they returned to Corvallis. I miss them so much. When I had decided to visit Corvallis I gave them a heads-up that I was planning on visiting and was hoping to see them. Besides Jorge being at a Men's Conference for the day, it worked well. I was going to get to "hang with the girls," as Beth said in a message. I got to their place and got the grand tour, got hugs from Nora and Carmen and then we whisked away for brunch. We went to The Broken Yolk. They had gluten-free bread so I got to have toast with my breakfast. It was yummy!!

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After eating we headed back to their place. Here are Nora and Carmen gazing at my from inside the front door. For Nora's birthday, I had sent an oh-so-cute tutu and ballerina book. Nora was gracious enough to model the tutu for me! Isn't she just adorable?!

Then she wanted a Stephanie-Nora picture.

And then another one...

And then another one...and another one...I will spare you those. Not that they are bad or anything, but they are basically all the same, yes, I quit at 5, I think.

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I neglected to get a picture with Beth, so I hijacked this one of her and Nora.It was great to take time with this family that I love. I had time with each of the girls by themselves while the other was napping and even had a great opportunity to visit with Beth while both girls were napping for a few minutes at the same exact time. It was wonderful. It made me want them to be closer again.

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After several hours with these great girls, I headed to the store for a few items and then made my way towards Tera's house and her church, where she was working the Men's Conference, that Jorge had been at. I conveniently got to the church just minutes after Tera had finished kitchen duty. I followed her to her house and got the grand tour of she and her roommates place. It is adorable. Absolutely.
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We had made plans to hike. As you may remember, it had poured on my drive down. We knew it would be muddy, my knee has been unhappy with me and we had spent some good quality time talking and talked a bit too long to get a good hike in before dark. We decided to pass on the hike and just go downtown and hang out. There are tons of cute stores in Corvallis and Tera showed me many that I love and definitely want to and will go back too. To name a few (so I can remember when I go back): Inkwell, The Book Bin, Living Earth Bakery (all g/f). I even scored a serving dish for my dishware set (which has been discontinued) at Many Hands Trading. Sweet! After walking all over downtown and the great debate of where we would eat, we headed to dinner at Cafe Yumm. And it was yummy! :)

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Then to the a few other locations Tera wanted to show me, including a 24 hour prayer room above a coffee shop and OSU's campus. I really love wandering around college and university campuses. It was dark, but we still made our way around. I will return sometime in daylight hours. The buildings were pretty phenomenal. My favorite was the Memorial Union building. It is a gorgeous building. It also has a gorgeous ceiling in the rotunda. I couldn't stop looking at this ceiling. I didn't even think of taking a picture, until Tera mentioned later that I should have. I found and borrowed the next two pictures from here. Thank you OSU blogger.

We walked up that staircase. I looked up at that amazing ceiling, a lot.

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The picture below is a close up of the recessed shapes in the ceiling.

Then we headed for gelato. More yummy goodness.

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Tera was making a mess. Her gelato was melting all down the side of her cup. She ditched the spoon and just started licking.

Then we made a few more stops to see a few more places she wanted to show me and headed back to the house and on to more quality conversation.
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After much late night conversation we had to take a few pictures of Tera's roommates cat, who, by the way, is not being tortured in the following picture. She rather likes being held like this...

Sapphire (the cat) slept in bed with me while I was visiting. She was a sweet cat. Ezme forgave me when I returned home.

Sunday morning we got up and headed for church. Tera is on staff for her church as one of the leaders/organizers of the girls groups for Real Life, their college age group. She is also attending the School of Ministry run by her church. It was such a blessing to see where she attends church, attends her SOM classes and see her at work answering calls/texts to assist in arranging rides for girls to get to church that didn't have a way to get there otherwise. I got to see her in her element. It was great.

After church we headed back to her place for lunch and then she headed off to go shopping for supplies to feed 30 girls a spaghetti dinner and I headed home...in the sun and in enough quiet to process conversations that had been had, time that had been enjoyed, and the blessings that these people, and so many others, are in my life. Thank you Beth, Nora, Carmen and Tera for a most enjoyable and refreshing weekend.

Success or Failure?!

At the beginning of summer I made a list of things I'd like to do. Summer is very much over now and I thought I'd go back and take a look at that list. At THIS list and see how I made out. I can't say I succeeded, I won't say I failed.

Here is my list in review:
1. Go to the beach. ~~DONE x3!
2. Go to the Tacoma Museum of Glass. ~~not done...tabled to another time.
3. Hike, as often as I can, wherever I can. ~~DONE (a lot)
4. Discover new music. ~~DONE (a lot)
5. Drive to Leavenworth, WA. ~~not done...tabled to another time.
6. Go to a Portland Timbers soccer game. ~~not done...tabled to another time (when they are an MLS team)
7. Go miniature golfing. ~~not done...tabled to another time (this can so be a winter activity with an indoor course).
8. Go to a Portland Beavers baseball game (before they get kicked out by MLS). ~~DONE
9. Go to concerts in the parks (a few times, at least). ~~DONE
10. Go to Flicks on the Bricks (at least once). ~~DONE
11. Read more books. ~~DONE
12. Lay in the grass. ~~DONE
13. Go on more picnics. ~~DONE
14. Go to a Vintage Baseball game (again, it was so much fun last year!). ~~not done...tabled to another time.
15. Go to festivals (Balloon, India, etc.) ~~eh, DONE, but not with much enthusiasm.
16. Go to some area gardens (dahlia's, Leach Botanical, Japanese, Rose, Oregon, and more) ~~not done...the gardens weren't super great because of the weather we've had.
17. Drive to Sisters/Bend area (something I'd wanted to do all last summer and never did). ~~not done...tabled to another time.
18. Go berry picking. ~~not done...tabled to another time.
19. Drive the Fruit Loop (perhaps during pear season). ~~DONE x3!

I figure, a list is a list, as crazy about them as I am. It provided focus. At the same time, there were some other things that I did that ended up being much more beneficial and important, things that couldn't have been placed on this list all the way back in June when I made it.

September Poem of the Month

Desiderata - by Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.