In my mind I'm goin' to Carolina

Can't you see the sunshine
Can't you just feel the moonshine

Ain't it just like a friend of mine
It hit me from behind
Yes I'm gone to Carolina in my mind

~James Taylor

So, here I am. A whole month (and then some more days) after spending Christmas and New Year's Eve on the opposite coast from where I currently find myself. Yes, the date on the blog post is for earlier in the year than it really is. The glory of being able to change post dates. In all truth it is almost Valentine's Day when I write this...where has the time gone? So, in my mind (and in pictures) I'm goin' to Carolina (the North one) and then to DC too. I will also take you!

Christmas morning Josh and I got up and ready to hit the road. Our destination was Wilmington NC. Home of my uncle. Home to the place we would celebrate Christmas with my Mom and Uncle.

Pretty poor picture, but it is indeed the state line as we were leaving Virginia and entering North Carolina. Not too much longer to go...

As we arrived in Wilmington...

6 hours and 20 degrees later we pulled up to my Uncle's house. We'd left Maryland at about 9:45am in 30 degree weather and snow falling and pulled up to my Uncle's at 4pm, overcast, and 50 degrees. Welcome to the end of the drive. Thank goodness. Though, we had a great time on the drive talking and discovered a radio show that we thoroughly enjoyed called This American Life. It was the Christmas Spectacular and entertained us for a time, especially the Animal Farm Christmas story about 40 minutes in to the episode.

We're here!

My Uncle lives in a house in the historic area of Wilmington. It is one of those houses that has a plaque on it describing the historical significance. Pretty cool place if I do say so! Dinner was almost done and so while we were waiting Josh and I unloaded the car and then went for a walk down to the River...Cape Fear. It was nice to be in warmer weather.

Palms on Christmas Day...not the norm for me.

We had our Merry Christmas Eve picture in front of Christmas Trees in MD, so we took a Merry Christmas Day picture in front of the palms!

Checking out the river.

On the river with the USS North Carolina across the river.

Very cool sculpture on the river front.

My Uncle's home. It is a duplex, but not the typical side-by-side style we see today, rather the top and bottom style. Almost 100 years old.

The door you can see with the wreath on it below is his. And so is the balcony!

Looking down the hallway! My Uncle has a pretty cool collection of photos, etc down the hall.

More cool stuff!

Not so comfortable square toilet. There's a story about that seat, too.

View from the hallway towards the door out onto the balcony. Awesome hardwood floors.

Portion of Living room.

Christmas!

Christmas Cat Buki!

Josh wrapped his gifts in Birthday paper. To celebrate Jesus' birth!

On speaker phone with fam from WY.

We laughed a lot this day. At dinner. Opening gifts. I cried a few times because I was laughing so hard.

After opening gifts we walked down to the river. Took a few pictures.

L to R: Me, Mom, Brother, Uncle, Dog at feet.

~ Brother and Sister

Sister and Brother~

Josh tutoring Mom on how to check her email on his smart phone.

We went to the Serpentarium while we were visiting. Saw some snakes. And some other reptiles. I was sort of fascinated.Huge "Giant Anaconda"

Josh "petting" a croc.

snake

snake

lizard

Iguana and tongue!

There were parrots in the lobby. The guys had fun talking to them.

We also went to your the USS North Carolina. It COLD, but good! This is the view from the ship deck towards the downtown area. My Uncle's place is near the church steeple. Wilmington in a Coast Guard City and you can see one of the ships across the river from the deck of the USS NC

Above picture is the "church" quarters that collapsed down for meal times.

In the galley~ Lots o' steps.

Master electric switch. One huge light switch~ Smile, Mom!

:)

The wishing well~

The Gyrocompass. Center of the ship.

Ammo...and lots of it.

Gun powder. And brother.

Gear. Heavy gear.

Dental area.

Dr's office

Operating room above.

View out the porthole.

On deck. It was cold and windy, but oh-so-gloriously-sunny! Huge chain links for the anchor.

Go Josh, go!

Loved this sign~

Big ship parts~

Basking in the sun on the porch! In December! Glorious!

Headed to the ocean. The building on the left is the resturant we ate lunch. Center of photo...ocean!

View from our table~

Walking on the beach.

There were lots of shells we were picking up. Also, lots of dolphins swimming out in the water.

Basking in the sun~with a winter coat on.

Beauty.

Shadows~

Love this pier!

I could handle this view daily.

Mom and Josh.

Eating ice cream. Outside. In December. Crazy family. 'Nough said.

USS NC at sunset.

Me and big Buki~

Smiling in the sun with my Mom.

On the road back to DC...some more snow on the sides of the road.

Snippets from DC area...

Walking the cat in the hall.

DC and surrounding areas host a delicious cupcake/cake place called CakeLove. Pretty much amazing, especially since they have gluten-free cupcakes. Megan, my friend who told me about them was pretty much right on when she said it is the frosting that is so good. Yummm...

At the National Archives building. Pretty cool to see the Declaration, Constitution and Bill of Rights.

Look at that beautiful blue sky!

White House backyard. I was able to get so much closer than when I was there in the spring.

I was sort of in a bum mood, for no apparent reason...until I saw this...then I cheered up immensely.

White House Christmas Tree on the Ellipse with the Washington Monument in the background.

Surrounding the tree on the Ellipse were 57 smaller trees--one for each state and territory.

Little villages and lots of trains surrounding the base of the tree.

Christmas lights make me happy.

New Year's Eve

Glimpses of Butters...

We spent some time in downtown Bethesda and went to another cake place that had amazingly wonderful decorated cakes...

LOVED the tree cake~ In the words of my brother after eating these cupcakes; "If I wasn't diabetic before that, I am now." Too sweet in our opinions.

Snow angel in remaining ice in one of the reflecting pools. US Capitol Building Christmas Tree (from the great state of Wyoming)! Way to represent WY!

Two Womingites standing in front of a tree from Wyoming that is gracing the lawn of the US Capitol Building...makes me happy.

We ended our New Year's Eve by attending this movie...

Well done, but intense. Then home we went so I could catch a plane back to Oregon on the first day of 2011!

T'was the Night Before Christmas...

...when all through the plane,
the attendants were busy, the passengers insane.
The seat pockets in front of me, stuffed with sickness bags,
in hopes that no one would actually gag.

The attendants scurrying up and down the isles,
passing out peanuts, drinks and smiles.
The turbulence was rough,
while the seats could use more fluff.

The time was dragging,
while the lady next to me was bragging.
We landed in the nick of time,
so I can stop trying to rhyme.

Okay, okay...my very POOR attempted at rhyming, but once I titled the post I felt obligated to go with it, even if for a short time. Please forgive me!

So, with my poor rhyming and apology out of the way, let's move on to the way I spent my Christmas Eve....

I awoke on the west side of the country and spent all day soaring above the country, and the clouds and went to bed on the east side of the country. The is a lot of miles and hours to cover. Here are a few photo glimpses.

From the air~ I don't know were...some mountainous area.

After finally landing at Baltimore Washington Airport, waiting an eternity for luggage and finding brother's car...we made our way to our Christmas Eve dinner. Thai in downtown Silver Spring.

Christmas trees!
The Discovery Channel building is a block away from where we ate. I must admit is was a little surreal to be here after the hostage incident. I had also been to it when I was in DC in the spring.

T-Rex showing his Christmas spirit.
We then went back to Josh's place and his feline son was able to "open" his gifts.

They went over extremely well.

Butter's and me!

After Butter's got his gifts I went to work on wrapping mine to give. One downfall of flying with gifts is that they can't be wrapped. Which meant I felt like a slacker, but could truly say it wasn't my fault. We then went to bed in preparation for our 6 hour Christmas Day journey to Wilmington NC. Pretty sure Santa didn't crash our party...no promises for Mom and Uncle Ron's Christmas Eve festivities.

December Poem of the Month

Snowman
by Shel Silverstein


'Twas the first day of springtime,
And the snowman stood alone
As the winter snows were melting,
And the pine trees seemed to groan,
"Ah, you poor sad smiling snowman,
Said the snowman, "What a pity,
For I'd like to see July.
Yes, I'd like to see July, and please don't ask me why.
But I'd like to, yes I'd like to, oh I'd like to see July.


"Chirped a robin, just arriving,
"Seasons come and seasons go,
And the greatest ice must crumble
When it's flowers' time to grow.
And as one thing is begining
So another thing must die,
And there's never been a snowman
Who has ever seen July.
No, they never see July, no matter how they try.
No, they never ever, never ever, never see July.


"But the snowman sniffed his carrot nose
And said, "At least I'll try,"
And he bravely smiled his frosty smile
And blinked his coal-black eye.
And there he stood and faced the sun
A blazin' from the sky --
And I really cannot tell you
If he ever saw July.
Did he ever see July? You can guess as well as I
If he ever, if he never, if he ever saw July.

Birthday Goodness

Sometimes birthday's are just another day. Usually they are. But I still enjoy my birthday, overall. Last year I organized a gathering and I decided to pass on that this year. Instead I celebrated with individual friends. My hope had been to get a picture of each gathering and I failed. But I still enjoyed the things I did and the people I spent time with. Marta took me to lunch, I saw the Nutcracker ballet with Holly and then my actual birthday I worked and Tera, a friend in Corvallis came up for the afternoon and evening. After eating yummy tacos for dinner we headed to Papa Haydn's, my new tradition birthday dessert location, for a sweet treat. I almost always get the Pana Cotta, which is like heaven in my mouth and stuck with it as a tried and true treat for me.

With raspberries and raspberry sauce on the top! Doesn't it look amazing?! It tasted AMAZING~
Tera and her multiple layer chocolate and something or other cake, which I hear was also excellent. Forgive the bad lighting, we didn't want to disturb others by using the flash~probably should have though...

Yummy!

Thanks to all my friends that called, texted, emailed and spent time with me for my birthday! I feel very loved at the end of one more year of life and going into my next year. Grand way to start it off!

A Lane of Lights

After living in Portland for close to 10 years I finally made it to one of the most popular Portland Christmas Attractions. The lights of Peacock Lane. Megan and I headed over after work with warm beverages in hand and in a slight drizzle that let up while we were walking the street lined in lights. It was glorious and made me happy. I love Christmas lights. Enjoy with me~

I loved the Charlie Brown characters and the Grinch house.

Pretty aren't they?!

A Gaggle of Girls for a Glorious Gathering

Apparently, I'm liking the letter "G" tonight. Really, I am grateful for these girls, for the laughter they bring to my life. This is a group of four of us, all friends from college, that get together once a month. Or try to. This year we've been fairly consistent. We've been gathering like this for the five years that I've been out of school, though some of these girls finished after me, and some have gone back to school in that time. We've been through a lot together--sicknesses, marriages, house buying, life changing things, life living. And, we always laugh. Always.

The plan was to meet at my place and take a "nice" group picture before venturing out to the Fantasy Trail. In setting the self-timer on my camera, and having a wonderfully curious cat...this was take one of our group shot. Thank you, Ezme. You never cease to make me laugh, this night you shared that experience with everyone!

behind the cat (from L to R): Jamie, me, Rose, Rachel

~

Our arrival at the Fantasy Trail. Aquiring hot cocoa and tickets.On the trail...

We encountered a bridge that was a little too fun to jump on. Notice Jamie's hair! :)

Smile Santa!

Such a good looking group of girls!

Notice the jail. Click on the picture to enlarge it and notice who is in it...

One of the houses on the trail was all slanted, off kilter...we had fun peeking through this "mini-opening!"

~me

~Rachel

~Jamie

~Rose

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Rose and me in another little house~

Our group in the castle!

That is the way to go...

Jamie was concerned about the "children being held captive" on the property. We kept coming up with stories about them peddling bikes to power all the lights, hiding in the woods, etc. Then, in the castle there were carvings on the wall. More proof of the children being held captive! :)

Yes, Jamie, I realize that child has been here since 1990. Haha~The Fantasy Trail was a lot of fun and we laughed a lot. I most definitely will return-maybe for Halloween next year!

~

Meanwhile, back at the ranch....

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....we had decided to have an ornament exchange and a white elephant exchange.

Rachel with part one of her white elephant.

Last year, we had decided to get the corny-est white elephant gift. I found this darling (read sarcasm into this) baseball cap bird house. Rachel ended up with the dreaded thing last year. It came back this year. Rose is the lucky holder of the awful bird house for the next 12 months.

Jamie and her book, "Where the Heart Is."

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The pictures of our ornaments that I took didn't turn out the greatest, so you'll have to live with an update later, or just not seeing them. They were great though, and I absolutely love mine! It came all the way from Michigan and will be a treasure that I put on my tree each year. When I hang it I am sure I will remember this night and these lovely ladies with fondness and a smile in my heart.

Jamie, me, Rose, Rachel (minus the cat)

~

For our November gathering, Rachel had written a poem as the invite. It was so much fun that I had to copy her idea for our December gathering--here's my handy work:

This is the time
That I would like to rhyme
I sit here to write
Of a girls gathering in the night.

It is the eve of the 7th of December
Please remember.

A special season
Is the reason
That we will gather in my home
And from there we will roam.

Christmas clothes you will be wearing.
Two gifts you will come bearing.

One gift will be a white elephant,
Just for the hell of it.
The other a nice ornament,
That will become tree adornment.

I will serve some goodies that will refresh.
I only hope they will impress.

If you have any questions,
Or even a few suggestions
Contact me please, don’t hesitate.
For this I will appreciate.

Merry Christmas!

November Poem of the Month

Where the Sidewalk Ends
by Shel Silverstein

There is a place where the sidewalk ends
And before the street begins,
And there the grass grows soft and white,
And there the sun burns crimson bright,
And there the moon-bird rests from his flight
To cool in the peppermint wind.

Let us leave this place where the smoke blows black
And the dark street winds and bends.
Past the pits where the asphalt flowers grow
We shall walk with a walk that is measured and slow,
And watch where the chalk-white arrows go
To the place where the sidewalk ends.

Yes we'll walk with a walk that is measured and slow,
And we'll go where the chalk-white arrows go,
For the children, they mark, and the children, they know
The place where the sidewalk ends.

There’s no question: My days are numbered

This article was in the Oregonian in November of 2006. I love it. And, at this time of year the point of it is good to remember:

The average American home now has more television sets than people, according to Nielsen Media Research. There are 2.73 TV sets in the typical home and 2.55 people, the researchers said. --The Associated Press Sept 21, ’06

I have two kids. Both are away at college.
I have five television sets. (I like to think of them as a set of five televisions.) I have two DVR boxes, three DVD players, two VHS machines and four stereos.
I have 19 remote controls, mostly in one drawer.
I have three computers, four printers and two nonworking faxes.
I have three phone lines, three cell phones and two answering machines.
I have no messages.
I have 46 cookbooks.
I have 68 takeout menus from four restaurants.
I have 116 soy sauce packets.
I have 382 dishes, bowls, cups, saucers, mugs and glasses.
I eat over the sink.
I have five sinks, two with a view.
I try to keep a positive view.
I have two refrigerators.
It’s very hard to count ice cubes.
I have 39 pairs of golf, tennis, squash, running, walking, hiking, casual and formal shoes, ice skates and rollerblades.
I am wearing slippers.
I have 41 37-cent stamps.
I have no 2-cent stamps.
I read three dailies, four weeklies, five monthlies, and no annual reports.
I have 506 CD, cassette, vinyl and 8-track recordings.
I listen to the same radio station all day.
I have 26 sets of linen for four regular, three foldout and two inflatable beds.
I don’t like having houseguests.
I have 184,000 frequent-flier miles on six airlines, three of which no longer exist.
I have “101 Dalmations” on tape.
I have 14 digital clocks flashing relatively similar times.
I have 22 minutes to listen to the news.
I have nine armchairs from which I can be critical.
I have a laundry list of things that need cleaning.
I have lost more than 1,000 golf balls.
I am missing 37 umbrellas.
I have more than 400 yards of dental floss.
I have a lot of time on my hands.
I have two kids coming home for Thanksgiving.

~Written by Rick Moranis

Some days are like that

Today has been the kind of day that nothing seems to go right. Nothing seems to go wrong, necessarily. It just doesn't go right. Maybe that is why I've lost my brain. I decided to make a yummy wild rice and turkey casserole for dinner. Get rid of some of those turkey leftovers from Thanksgiving. I went to the store especially to get mushrooms for it. Came home, put it all together and stuck it in the oven. About 15 minutes before it was done I opened the fridge. Guess where the turkey still was?!

Ugh.

:) Good thing it is almost over!

A Little Bit of Wyoming on the East Coast

Even if I won't be in Wyoming for Christmas this year, a little bit of Wyoming will be gracing the front lawn of the US Capitol Building. I will also be gracing the front lawn of the Capitol at some point during the holiday season and will therefore, get to experience a little bit of my homestate on the other side of the country. Bliss.

As soon as I found out that this years Capitol Christmas Tree was coming from my homestate, I had to "Like" the Facebook Page. Of course. That page led me to the blog of the adventure from WY to DC. The pictures below I hijacked (with love and appreciation) from the blog~

I absolutely LOVE the one of the tree loaded on the truck with the Tetons in the background. Stunning, really.

The one of the tree in front of the Capitol Building is pretty impressive, also!

Soon enough, I will be seeing it. Adorned with 5,000 ornaments made lovingly by many from around the great state of Wyoming. I can't wait.

(click on the pictures to make them bigger!)

Last visits. Goodbyes.

Last visits, last times to see a person, last looks at something, to someone are interesting. And hard. I experience this a lot with the population I work with. Sometimes I don't know it is the last time. I think I might prefer it that way. Then again. I don't know. Is it easier to say goodbye to a person now before they are gone or later once they are gone? Is it easier to say goodbye to a place that you have fond memories of, knowing you will make more fond memories in the next place?

Goodbyes. They can be either temporary or permanent. The temporary ones are always better. The permanent ones are inevitable.

This post is disjointed. Maybe because my brain is disjointed. Along with my emotions. You see, I made a last visit today. Said goodbye today. It was harder than I expected. Maybe because it was unexpected in the way it happened. As some of you know, and some of you don't, I am a Hospice volunteer. It is a semi-recent thing. I completed my training in June and got my first "assignment" in early August. She was a hard nut for me to crack. We eventually found our groove. She loved having her back massaged. I'd love to have someone massage my shoulders, arms, and back for 45 minutes to an hour once a week. Sounds like heaven. That is what I did for her. Faithfully, once a week. Even with little response from her. Even with little interaction. And only one time (in four months of visits) any indication that she remembered who I was. That didn't seem to matter. She glowed when I was there. It didn't matter that I had to be let in AND out of her building. It just didn't matter. I was making a difference in her life, if only for that hour, once a week.

Late Friday I got a call from one of the Volunteer Coordinators that my first patient was being discharged from services. She had improved enough that she no longer qualifies at this moment in time for Hospice. It was optional to make a last visit.

I made my last visit today. My usual Saturday visit. After the phone call yesterday I couldn't help but feel sorrow. Sadness knowing I had grown accustomed to seeing this lovely, little lady that only has a world as large as her room, her wheelchair, the locked facility that she lives in. That her world has been diminished and will be further diminished, day-by-day, hour-by-hour. Even though the last visit was optional, I couldn't not go and say goodbye. She was in her bed and very agitated. Delusional. She was upset and not consolable. Not redirectable. It broke my heart. Especially as I explained that this was the last time I would come. She looked at me blankly and then started to talk about the rats, wanting to go home. I wanted to go home. I was having a hard time with this. When I had signed up to be a Hospice volunteer it was knowing full well that I would be saying goodbye to my patients. But I hadn't expected to say goodbye to them in person. While they are still alive. And if that is the case, I was wishing that it would have been on a good note. On a note that we'd had our visit last week when she was smiling and happy. I stepped back for a moment and reminded myself that I needed to meet her where she was at. I reapproached her and told her that I was so glad that I had been able to come visit and that I would think of her often. I thanked her. I gave her a kiss on the forehead and said goodbye. She calmed then and said goodbye, probably not (but maybe) understanding the scope of the goodbye.

On my way home I reflected on my thankfullness that I was able to interact with this person. I was able to make a difference in her life and that she made a difference in mine. For this, I am grateful and appreciative. And, I said my final goodbye.

Socks-lots of them!

Apparently, we love our socks here. So much so that some crazy folk arrive in the wee hours of the morning at their local Fred Meyer store on Black Friday to get great deals on socks. Socks. Because I am not originally from here and also choose not to participate in the chaos I forget every year about this madness. That is until I walk into Fred Meyer anytime during the week before Thanksgiving. Every year this thought goes through my mind: "why are there so many boxes of socks. Seriously, stockers, get them out of the isles." Oh, goodness. Socks. 50% off on Friday apparently. Is it worth it?

I've also heard stories of people going in to Freddies on Thanksgiving Day and hiding socks so that they can avoid all the people swarming the boxes and can just go to their friendly garden center and extract said socks out of the pots that they've hidden them in. Oh, sorry. I didn't mean to give away your secret. Really. Please forgive.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours. Me and mine will not be sock shopping in the wee hours of Friday morn.

Only in Portland

Portland is a unique city. I love it for that very reason. I am not often 'surprised' by anything I see here. However....this completely caught me off guard.

I was walking to the hospital during my lunch break one day and this is what I saw. After walking past it I had to turn around just to take a picture all the while silently praying that the owner wouldn't walk up as I was doing it. Thank goodness for cell phone cameras.

Drum roll please as I introduce you to the most unusual thing I've seen in a while~~

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, it is a crocheted car hood warmer. WOW. Really?! Welcome to Portland in all of its "Keep Portland Weird" glory! :) And now, please proceed with your day and have a great one!

The Ripple Effect

Alternately titled:
"On the difference we make in peoples lives

and the difference they make in ours."

This post has been a long time in the making. It has been rolling around in my mind as if it is all that takes up residence in this place. It has been formulating during what has equated to hours of conversations, some where I did the talking, some where I did the listening, all with those who are close to my heart. It took a road trip to see a dear new friend. It took a late night airport run and quiet on my part. It took a picture message of a beautiful fall leaf from a beautiful friend. It took a typical weekly visit and conversation that took a different path than normal. It took walks up a pretty intense hill. It took a reconnection with a mentor from my junior high days. It took listening to music. Listening to my heart. It took the melancholy that settles like a heavy fog in my life, always making itself known during the change of seasons. It took silence. And the processing of conversation content. The processing of brain content. And of heart content. It may not be clear, but it is from deep in my soul. It is tangential. Quiet but loud. It is sincere. It is here, for you, to read. For you to know my appreciation of you.

As of late I cannot not think about the people in my life. I know a lot of people. I have connected with a lot of people. I cherish the impact that they all have had on my life. Hence, the ripple effect. Recently, I've often been finding my thoughts drifting towards the people that have entered my life, and who have not left. The people who have entered my life, and who have left. For all of them, for all of you, I am thankful. Truly. I am. I wouldn't be the person I am today without your presence in my life. Your influence. Your love. Your time. Your patience.

There have been innumerable people who have made a dent in my person, my development. Carefully crafting who I am, carving out the image of me as a person, whether they knew it or not. There is, of course, my family. They are the base, sturdy and strong like a Great Oak. They are the ones who first taught me love. Taught me the impact that can be made in the life of someone, for better or worse. Then there came all who are not blood related, but are heart related. The people that I surround myself with. The people who again, teach me love, but of a different kind. The friends who share their concerns, friends who share their life experiences, their fears, their excitements. And those are the friends that let me share my concerns, life experiences, fears and excitements. It is they, who have open hearts and let me be me and love me for who I am.

As I think of you and thank God for placing you in my life I also wonder at the impact that I have made in your life, in the lives of all those that I interact with. Was it for the better, or worse? I pray for the first, but will also own the later. In several conversations and thoughts that I've had as of late, one of the points I come back to often is: I may know the impact that a particular person has made in my life, but I often forget and minimize the impact that I may have made in the life of another. The reason I make this point is not in vain. The reason I make this point is to remind you, to tell you, that even though you are grateful for those who impact your life, you should always remember that you are also making an impact in peoples lives. You are important. Even if you feel small. Even if you feel insignificant. You aren't. No one is. You have made an impact on me. In my life. I am beyond blessed to have you as a part of me and who I am.

I've decided on the need to be on a personal crusade to more transparently and intentionally acknowledge those who make a difference to me and for me. I begin here. And I hope I don't end. Many blessings to you and many thanks from my heart go to you.



Always,
~Stephanie

Proud New Inheritor of An Original

I was gifted a dear and close to my heart gift tonight. I lost a participant, who was a light in my life, a little over a year ago. I still miss her. I still have the privilege of seeing her family. She was an amazing artist. Her daughter has been trying, for the last year, to get me to willingly accept one of the many paintings they have that her mom had done. I haven't wanted to. I've pushed back. I've resisted. I thought it would be too hard to have one of her pieces. When I was having dinner with her daughter tonight, going through the artwork was brought up. I tried to diffuse the situation. Then she got flustered. I thought in my head, "you know Stephanie, this may be her way of having some closure. Accept the gift graciously." So, I left her home with a new piece of art work for my home. I love it. It already feels like it belongs. Now...to frame it. The mat doesn't do it any justice either. And then, a distinguished place for it to hang.

October Poem of the Month

Fallen Leaves
by Robert William Service

Why should I be the first to fall
Of all the leaves on this old tree?
Though sadly soon I know that all
Will lose their hold and follow me.

While my birth-brothers bravely blow,
Why should I be first to go?
Why should I be the last to cling
Of all the leaves on this bleak bough?
I've fluttered since the fire of Spring

And I am worn and withered now.
I would escape the Winter gale
And sleep soft-silvered by a snail.
When swoop the legions of the snow
To pitch their tents in roaring weather
We fallen leaves will lie below
And rot rejoicingly together;
And from our rich and dark decay
Will laugh our brothers of the May.